So late 40’s early 50’s MWC here testing the waters. We’re not new to the lifestyle but we’ve been on a bit of a break. The whole process of weeding through potential guys to play with the wife is tedious, and not fruitful at all. So I’m brainstorming a new approach and testing the waters here to get feedback.

What she’s looking for: 40-50, clean cut, HWP, Caucasian (sorry her preference), 6’0” or taller is nice but not a must have, 7” and thick, professional, ability to be discreet. If there’s chemistry and this works out it would be an on-going FWB situation, emphasis on ”friends”. This would start as a husband watching situation and could progress to you two playing solo.

What am I testing the waters? So typically I find a prospective guy and I either send him her Snapchat ID, or we go have a plutonic meet up to gauge interest/chemistry. This method has not yielded any decent candidates in almost 8 months (hence we’re tired of looking). So I’m toying with the idea of posting an ad on here, with the scenario that our male candidate knows where we’ll be out that night, and it’s up to him to hit on her and see where it goes. While she knows I’m looking, she would not know that particular day that our male candidate will come talk to her.

So anyway, looking for some feedback from the community…..and maybe suggestions or ways guys you’ve been able to find playmates for your wives/GF’s.