Hi! I am so happy I joined this thread! Sometimes you just have to vent with people that understand. 😉36F, 39M here. We’ve been trying to find another girl for a ffm for 4 years. We’ve met a few but we still haven’t been lucky. We decided about 3 months ago to start getting to know/exploring with couples. Due to our schedules, having for 4 littles, and living in a town 3 hours ago from the city, we have talked to countless couples but nothing yet. My question is: are girls always hard to chat with? I have only chatted with a girl and the rest are always the guy chatting, which makes me think that the female partner is not interested. Also, why is it so hard for people to verify themselves. I/we are more than happy to verify and we’ve made it clear.