I (39F) had what I thought was a loving, healthy, EASY relationship for 6 months. He (36M) made sure to text me daily… good morning and good night. shared his location. We were each others top best friends on Snapchat for 6 months. He was never overly love-bomby…. Just normal. Like he seemed legit normal, nice, healthy, sweet, gentleman who respected boundaries, replied immediately. We had so much fun together, constant playful banter, and literally never fought. Not even once.

Suddenly… he had a one night stand with some plain Jane hoe (37F) he met on tinder while on a family vacation. They live 14 hours apart and recently I learned that while he wasn’t sending me anything for 5 days… they each drove 7 hours to meet up and spend a long weekend together!!!

I also saw him online on snapmap and exchanging snaps until 1:30 am. Yes I watched in disbelief not knowing wtf….

I haven’t contacted him since. It’s been 2 weeks. He hasn’t contacted me.

He discarded me like NOTHING. Like litter. For a plain Jane hoe who screws guys on the first night. She doesn’t seem that interesting to talk with either… so I’m very confused how she’s a better “supply” than me.

The kicker is… we were also currently long distance but I am going back to our home town next week (for 2 weeks) and we HAD plans. He said he was excited.

Soooo he’d rather snap with a plain Jane than be with his hot, fun, easy going girlfriend in person…?? He just discards me without any thought or care..?? Wtf just happened…???

I am going to maintain no contact. He hasn’t hovered or attempted any sort of contact. I can’t even believe he wouldn’t want any supply he’s been getting from me for the last 6.5 months.

I went no contact without saying a word. He’s not certain that I know what he did. He’s simply fine with me going silent.