Thought id give this subreddit a shot.. basically i live my life pretty happy go lucky. But i just focus on getting everything perfect. So i go to the gym to get a nice body, renovate my place to look pleasing, i even try to get jobs that would help my image (no manual labor, not a plumber or anything that says blue collar), basically i focus on outward things. I just want to ask if im focusing on the wrong things. Im just trying to get everything perfect until i get a wife and then live in the perfect house and wearing perfect clothes to act out a glamorous and stylish life. Am i doing something wrong? I mean i wont stop until i get that ideal reality i want.. it seems to be my only driving force to live actually.