I’ll try to make it short and sweet. I (24m) pursued someone, and it’s blatantly obvious they don’t care about me the same way I do.

Where I need help, is leaving them alone, and being comfortable with the idea of accepting the fact that the person I adore and care for simply changed the way they view me, and I’ve become just a side piece to hit up when they want attention.

I’ve moved on before. I’ve had multiple relationships. I need help removing my attachment and care from someone who sincerely takes it for granted.

I need help not feeling hurt that this person went from absolutely adoring me, and caring about a future together, to just blatantly viewing me as someone who just hopped in their DM and just orbits.

Every breakup or time I’ve moved on, it’s been a complete separation of communication. This time, I can tell I’ve been put on a leash and I need some sort of advice on how to just give them the same energy they give me, and stop idolizing this person. I’m simply not capable at this moment of moving on by myself.

Hope this makes sense.