Hello everyone. As some of you know my sister has been making some poor choices recently. She had a kid and hasn’t been a great parent recently. It was all outlined in the last post for here I made so I won’t detail much here as some new events have happened. I stayed out of her way as advised and only got involved to be an uncle for the baby. Well things are getting a bit more extreme now sense yesterday and I need some advice on what to do. First off my sister has moved out of the house entirely. She no longer lives with us at my moms house and has been telling us she is staying with her friend who we will call Hannah. Hannah and her family are nice people so we at least knew she wasn’t putting herself or the baby in possible danger.

Well that seems to have been a lie. She has been staying at her new boyfriends house. A guy she has known for about a month and a half and has been staying there for about 3 weeks now. We only learned that after she took the kid to Dallas Texas. To meet this guys parents. We don’t live close to Dallas, we don’t even live in Texas. She also didn’t tell the Dad or anything. This is not the first time she has done something kinda crazy without saying anything to anyone. We only learned she left cause a friend of my sister told the Dad.

Who then called my mom asking if the baby was ok cause he was worried. My mom said she didn’t know my sister even left for Texas. When she tried to talk to my sister and mentioned the dad just wanted to know she flipped on my mom. Yelling over the phone about how she should not talk to him and that what she does with the baby should not concern him. My mom fired back saying it’s his kid too he can worry about his kid. After that my mom talked to the Dad and told him he may need to figure something out because this is going to keep going on if nothing happens. The Dad agreed and told my sister he is getting a lawyer. My mom mentioned she would help however she can.

I just wanna know if you guys have advice about what you think I should do here. I love my sister but she is not a good parent.

This isn’t even mentioning what happened Mother’s Day where she refused to go see our grandma with our mom and wanted to instead run around with her friend. Then got super mad and said she was moving out. It was a very ugly scene.

I wanna make a good choice and help my little niece have a good life.