I matched with a guy on OLD, and he listed his relationship style as “figuring out my relationship type.” He is very communicative, intelligent and sounds very self-aware and kind - all things that are very important to me and that I think are rare to find in OLD these days. I am very much a monogamous person. I asked him to elaborate about figuring out his relationship type. He said that he was in a 14 year marriage where they barely had sex. He said that they were having a lot of sex in the beginning, but soon into the marriage they were not. He felt that this was due to their both not having a lot of sexual experience before marrying and then not knowing how to communicate about it/work on it during the marriage. He also says he has a very high libido. He said that he wants to be in a monogamous relationship that is fulfilling sexually, that this experience during his marriage was what led him to think about ENM since the divorce 3 years ago, and he has not yet been in an ENM relationship. Being a very monogamous person, is this a red flag that we would not be compatible and I should not pursue this?