When i turned 16 and got a job my mom told me send her money out of every check so i can help her pay bills, Then as i turned 18 got a better job went from 7.25/hr to $11/hr and graduated high school (Covid Year 2020) got my car she requested well demanded that i send her 250 every check (biweekly) for “car insurance” i ended up quitting that job and lost my car got another where i was barely making $2-300 weekly and she wanted $100 every week sometimes my checks would barely be $150 So i quit that job and went to a job where i was making decent money weekly but i was slaving 12 hour shifts 5 days a week $500 a week and she wanted $150 a week at first then i talked her down to $100. i ended up stop going to the job because my temp service probationary period was over. My whole point of this is saying since i’ve been 16 everytime my mom fusses she says “it’s my house my rules if you don’t like it get the f out” and when i bring up trying to stack my money to move out “your not going to stay anywhere for free” which i’m not trying to but i’m 21 and your complaining saying “You don’t like my rules then get out” How am i ever supposed to when i can’t touch my full check and save my money? Ex : if my biweekly check is $700 and i have to send u $250 how am i supposed to stack $450 for the next 2 weeks when it’s so unbearable to be in her house so i go outside to escape this family and they bs and have to spend money, so by time the next check come around i have less than 200 dollars which is going to her. I’m not complaining about paying rent but it’s like a never ending cycle. Then it’s like my opinion or voice is never heard it’s either her way is right or it’s no way at all. Then she calls my older brother like he’s my dad and he keeps basically siding with my mom. I just want to move away so far and never come back or have anything to do with these people.