I am 19 f and I have 3 months until I'm 20. In the u.s. I'd say 26 years old is when things get very serious because that's when most financial aid ends. I grew up poor with my parents always arguing especially about money. They gave me no structure and discipline and allowed me to quit whenevsr things got hard. They are overweight and they raised me overweight since first (We have lived in a 1 bedroom apartment since I was in first grade and are still living there so I've never had my own room the apartment got junky due to being 550 sq ft and storing 3 people's belongings) so I'm still overweight. So now I'm very insecure, indecisive. I have no talent or skills and absolutely no friends. And I have absolutely no fun. The only time I go anywhere is to run errands and most of the time I'm too anxious and insecure to leave the apartment to run them so I try to get my mom to do them for me. I barely graduate high because I was too depressed to do any work. I was always in class but I was sleep. I have so much that I'm interested in but I hesitate to start due to not having money, having a track record of quitting, being insecure around people, etc.

Tldr looking for the stories of people who got their lives together late in life and advice on I can do as a person who is insecure, lazy, unskilled, untalented, not good at socializing.

Side note I will appreciate everyone who comments but I need people who I can relate to. I cant relate to people with drug addictions, single parents, who grew up homeless because society more likely to sympathize with that cause delay in life. I need the stories of people who grew up lazy/indecisive/insecure but then suddenly got their act together hopefully not due to death either because I cant relate to anyone close to me dying eitehr