I tried a lot of sites.

FetLife people never responds and the post there are weeks old and usually groups I wanna solo. Tinder and all the other dating sites is a scam and you never get swipes.

Doublelist is full of bots and scams that links you to their kiks

Grindr is good but only if you wanna meet man. I wanna meet woman preferbly milfs and older. if there's a woman on there they're usually scams and catfish from the ones I've met.

FB dating no one talks either nor wants to date

AFF you can't message or even look at ppl profile without paying and I'm not paying any of these sites for features

Really makes me wish I was aware of craiglist personals at the time it was still around. Nowadays getting casual sex seems hard.