I'm an ace, which in my case entails that I've never been sexually attracted to anyone but fictional fantasy races. I think there's a chance I might still enjoy a physical connection, I don't really know and I just want to try. There's a good chance I won't be able to get excited. I know finding a stranger for this experiment is not the best scenario, but it's the only viable option for me at the moment.

Being an average guy, I don't think I'll get any responses if I disclose it in my profile, but I don't want to be an asshole either. So I'm thinking about showing up with a gift and explaining it in person, then seeing if they still want to try it. I just want to not feel bad about wasting another person's time if nothing comes out of it. Is there some monetary value that would make up for a missed opportunity to have sex? I have a high paying job, so something like $100-300 on a gift would not really bother me. Would $100 be okay? Is this all a stupid idea and I shouldn't be looking for someone to have sex with, with this kind of attitude?