Let's start off as friends , although eventually I'm looking for a serious long term relationship. Preferably from same country(india) but LDR is fine as well ( i can move). Long distance makes the final meet even more romantic as we travel across the world to be with each other.

My views on relationships :

Loving is different from being in a relationship. And being in a relationship is not always being in love.

It's possible that 2 people love each other deeply, but aren't in a relationship for reasons such as incompatibility , feasibility. The inverse is also possible, that 2 people enter into a relationship/marriage , out of sheer convenience, co-incidence, circumstances or compatibility but are not actually in love.

Love is acceptance, when we accept the person with all his flaws for who he is , and when we in turn are confident that we'd be accepted and loved too and hence don't have to adopt a fake appearance or try to show us as someone we are not, to get acceptance. But it also involves us putting a serious effort to fix our shortcomings and improve ourselves so that we become even more suitable for our partner. We consider ourselves as a 'present' we are giving to our partner and want to give them the best version of ourselves.

Also love is when we care about others as much as ourselves and do everything possible, making self-sacrifices to prevent them from getting hurt even if it affects/compromises our own interests.

Relationships aren't about finding the best we can get, it's about finding the best person for us. A person who may not be as handsome, successful, smart etc but who'll stick with you is actually more valuable than an unreliable disloyal alpha man who frequently gives u insecurities and has potential to be infidel

Some Essential Info About Me :

I’m a 26-year-old Indian man. I'm into programming and software development. But i plan to move to business / startup in the future. I've never had a relationship, so you'll be my first.

My Personality : I am an open book person and will reveal a lot of information about me pretty soon. I see no point in give you a false idea of what i am not or showing myself as someone different to match up with your expectations from a person. But i'm willing to adapt and change myself to become better and more compatible/suitable up to an extent. My empathy is based on either logic or the suffering i've myself gone through. So don't expect me to be the super feeling types but i'm not stone cold as well.

I really like being a support and best friend to anyone, even if relationship doesn't work out between us. I believe in honesty, kindness, fidelity, privacy, empathy. I am straightforward in talks, i hate mind games, you don't need to sugarcoat things or put effort to be polite. Be blunt and straight with me please.

I think i'm assertive and i openly express how i feel and i want you to do the same. If you keep things bottled in, you'll be at discomfort. I want you to share your feelings & thoughts with me in a direct way and be as comfortable while talking , as if i'm your best friend.

I'm an ambivert because i feel introvert with people i don't really connect with and extrovert otherwise. My MBTI type, i'm not sure, could be ENTP.

Physical: 6'0" ft , i believe weight is a false indicator of health, since muscle mass / bone density also contribute to it. I am in shape, fit , i play soccer, not the gym-goer but i can run long-distance , swim lengths, cycle across the earth. I'm lean but not skinny, slightly muscular. Fair skin but not white, more like wheatish. Nice black hair, cute look. Overall i'd say i'm above-average looking.

to summate what i am :

My good aspects : Honesty, logic, communication-skills, modesty , diligence , adaptability , fitness and physical health

Average aspects : looks , money, knowledge

My weak aspects : lack of confidence , experience , street-smartness. I am blunt, say hurtful inappropriate things sometimes, my career / education

My Interests and Hobbies

Talking to people, listening to their issues and helping out, playing sports, especially those involving teamwork, i really want to collaborate eventually to solve problems the world faces.

in TV i like thrillers, light comedy and documentaries. Some favs are prison break , cosmos (niel tyson), bill gate documentary and movies like White House Down, behind enemy lines , etc.

I like programming, designing or anything involving creativity/ logic. I also write poems if i fall in love with someone.

I don't like traveling alone , but once i find someone in life , i'm definitely enthusiastic about it. I have done white-water rafting and trekking.

Sexuality

i believe i have a high libido and sex drive. I have some kinks and would like to know yours as well so i can fulfill them. I think it's the emotions and love which makes it all the more fulfilling. I like giving you pleasure as much as receiving. I'm a virgin , and that makes it more exciting because I'd be even more enthusiastic about experiencing it the first time with you. Although you don't have to be a virgin.

Who I’m Looking for

A woman anywhere on the Earth (if you can't relocate, i will ) who is of age 19 to 37 , any race. I don't believe in giving birth to more children, but if you have kids already, i can adopt them. I'm flexible about your views of god, life philosophy. religion etc and you should be flexible too. I'd prefer though that you follow a middle ground between a religious zealot and a hardcore nihilist. I do believe our existence and life has a purpose. But even if we don't align in our spiritual beliefs now, we may become like-minded as we talk and understand each other. We need to be open-minded and rational / logical.

I value love and intelligence above everything else, so even if you have depression, don't have confidence in your beauty, have some mental health issues, are not able to get over a break up, still i'd like to atleast get to know you , be your friend and give it a chance.

I feel ugly people are actually mature, depressed people are wiser and those who have suffered loss in the past are more emotionally stronger. I'm looking for a loving heart and beautiful soul. Physical attraction is important , but not the main thing i look for.

I don't smoke, drink, take any drugs, and i'd prefer if you don't as well. I'd want you to put in an effort to abstain from that. But it's not a deal-breaker for me.

I also don't care about your money. You may be a college dropout , unemployed , that's alright. But i need you to be hard working and diligent.

If two lonely people get together, we can dispel away the loneliness.

Communication

send me a DM(private message) or chat or comment here. We can later connect on any chat app. You don't need to send a pic right away but you can ask for mine. I don't ghost people, i'd let you know if i wish to discontinue talking. I'm also transparent about whoever i'm speaking to. I will never cheat on you , lead you on , keep you as a backup option , etc.