Seeking a Domme/ Mistress for a Long-Term Relationship Beyond D/s

Hello!! I'm a curious and eager submissive looking to explore the world of BDSM. I'm new to kink and seeking a experienced Domme/Mistress who can guide me through the process of discovering my limits and desires. I am eager to explore the world of fetish while also finding a meaningful connection beyond just the dynamic. I'm seeking a dominant mistress who values both the D/s relationship and the everyday joys of life. About Me:

I'm 42y old bbw, short hair and tattoos with a passion for the outdoors but, ironically I HATE hot weather. I have immense love for animals, and pets are truly family to me. I enjoy camping, hiking, or enjoying nature and am trying to get back into doing these. I also have a keen interest in photography, capturing moments both in nature and of those I care about. I appreciate good food and love dining out as well as cozy movie nights.

I'm excited to explore and serve my mistress in various ways, including but not limited to:

Bondage and Restraint: I'm eager to experience different types of restraints, from cuffs and collars to ropes and shackles. Spanking: I find the idea of exploring various levels of spanking thrilling, ranging from playful to intense. Sensual Exploration: I’m interested in all forms of sensual play, including intimacy and erotic touch, to deepen our connection. Psychological Play: I'm unsure of psychological play and would like to learn more of what this entails.

My mistress/domme would be:

Experienced in the BDSM lifestyle, but also interested in a balanced dynamic. Gentle and nurturing but also hard and intense. Patient, understanding, and willing to take the time to teach me. Confident and assertive, able to guide me in exploring my submissive side. Open to communication and feedback, creating a safe space for both play and personal growth. Interested in building a connection that goes beyond D/s, as a friend or more. A strong emotional and intellectual bond is essential, and I hope we can share moments that foster closeness and understanding.

If you're a dominant who values both a D/s dynamic and a meaningful relationship beyond that framework, and it piques your interest to have a "virgin" submissive please reach out. I’m excited to start this journey and find someone who shares my desires and interests.

Please include a brief introduction about yourself and your experience in BDSM. I look forward to hearing from you. Online is ok as long as there is intention to meet IRL occasionally. Driving distance from Charlotte area a plus.