Hello everyone!

I'm a submissive female (29) with D/s, spanking and anal cravings. Looking for someone experienced and patient to dominate me online. Maybe you are the one to guide me as I find my way to sort my life out.

I have been on/off the submission scene. Self-spanking since 2019. I used to hang out on Spanking Needs, but the site is no longer active.

I had some long-term connections with male Doms in the past.

I'm in Europe, my Doms were from all over the world, Australia and the States included. For time zone convenience, I am looking to chat with people in Europe.

A bunch of times time difference got in the way. Sometimes background stress was too much to handle, and we had to stop.

To answer some of the burning questions, yes, online discipline works for me. It's all about submitting mentally first. It is a real need of mine, I can't deny it.

Yes, self-spanking is not as effective as being spanked by someone else. At the moment, it's a safe option to explore my kink. I had some tough experiences, so my trust issues are pretty bad. Due to that, no pics/videos. For sure not until we know each other well and build up trust.

Orgasm control might be effective, denial - not so much. With my fairly high libido, denial just made me miserable in the past.

I own a variety of implement and toys. I even purchased two anal hooks but didn't get a chance to train long enough to use them. Anxiety got in the way, and I stopped all things discipline in spring 2024.

Right now, I'm on my healing and self-improvement journey. I intend to work out regularly, eat healthier, and follow a healthy bedtime routine. I do want to find a guiding hand to help me on this path.

In the past, some spanking therapy along with anal discipline helped me reduce anxiety and improve well-being overall. I tried figging too.

Spanking generators and GPTs could do the deed, but talking to a real person is way more interesting.

Like last time, if anyone needs generators, look up 'slumber party punishment generators'. It has timeout, extra punishments and all that jazz.

If you are interested in chatting, please reach out. I look forward to meeting nice people and learning with you!

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