Hi there,

I hope that all is well with you.

As much as I would love to write about how I’m the dreamiest of subs, I’m not. I have so much to learn. I’m jealous and possessive. I’m clingy, and when I don’t feel like I’m getting attention, I can ruminate and run to assumptions. I don’t express my emotions in a way that makes it easy to know what I’m feeling. I might just fall back with the fear that I’m not what someone would want. I may have a case of word vomit and say too much. After all, I’m well aware that a good Domme is in high demand. Often, it feels like subs are just to be collected and rotated for the kinks of those who seem to own us.

But I’m also not desperate, and I know what I deserve.

I’m currently in school for hospitality-ish studies in upstate NY. There are details in my profile. I absolutely love to cook and be hospitable. I’m a bit of a dork, and I’ve been told that I give the hot librarian vibe. I love to laugh.

I’m plus sized, short, curvy, lots of hair, dimples… I wear a 38M and a size 14 for better physical reference.

I have a weird obsession with lingerie, fried chicken, and game of thrones. I can be either super quiet or I don’t shut up. I love a good book. I love to be disciplined.

I’m seeking a firm Domme. I’d be lying if I said it wouldn’t be a relief that you had, to some degree, your shit together. I love educated and professional women. A woman who can lead me and give me advice due to their own experiences and maturity… a woman who can stay calm when I’m going through the anxieties that adulthood brings, that I might not be used to… and a woman who knows how to discipline me and make sure that I serve them to their liking.

I love women. You don’t have to be perfect, as I am far from that. My requirements are that you don’t have any other subs. My heart is too sensitive to be your “other.” Please leave me be if you have someone else in your life that you are investing in romantically.

I enjoy being spoiled, but that’s so much deeper than materials. A phone call while I fall asleep, giving me words of affirmations when I’m being attacked with anxiety, a song that reminds you of me… that’s the type of stuff that makes my heart skip a beat (in a good way!)

I promise my intentions are pure.

I have plenty of kinks, so I’ll list those that I DO NOT partake in: blood, scat, meanness, and ANYTHING illegal (except for 420, cause ya know).

You’re welcome to message me💌