My wife has been verbally and emotionally abusive the entire 8 years we’ve been together and I’m finally ready to stop believing she’ll change. Right now I have long covid and I’m struggling with anxiety really badly and she’s been worse than ever. I’m currently researching good lgbtq divorce attorneys but I’ll take any pointers I can get! Side note I’ve been divorced previously (from another abusive asshole but male) and I know the ins and outs of divorce and it was brutal. Not sure what to expect now but I do have two children (not with her, we share nothing but a house) and I’m worried that I should be worried, you know? My last breakup (you guessed it, abusive af) was a long dragged out affair that lasted months and months. Luckily that was not a wife just a gf. God help me it’s gonna suck isn’t it. I’m really bad at picking my humans apparently.

Pathetically yours ….