I also posted this on r/sex, but it wasn’t as helpful as I’d have hoped.

I (20F) and my current discovery partner/fwb/whatever mutually came out as bi and are starting an exploratory thing together.

We’ve so far had two nights together.

She is INSANELY good at cunnilingus. I mean, grasp the sides of the bed with a death grip and explode in multiple supernovae good. 🔥🥵

I…am not. I honestly don’t know what I’m doing down there so I’m just sort of moving my lips and tongue around and hoping it does something.

She says she’s enjoyed it a lot, and I do make her cum, but it doesn’t seem like the same kind of earth shattering multiple times way I do when she goes down on me.

I almost feel…inadequate. Lol

Any general advice to get better at giving oral?

She’s considerably older than I am, so I guess that might be a factor?