Ok a girl I’ve been interested was on and off on the HER app. I told her “This is going be a very spontaneous thing to say but I’m going be free a lot next week what hang? I know crazy but I’m really saying fuck it”. Her response was “Depends on what the plan would be lol”. So I made a list of things to do and everything. She never responded afterwards, I thought all hope was done with.

So in the middle of the week I made a choice and delete the app and I sent her a message because I was still interested(she’s a college student so I understand she’s busy). So I sent her a message (very dramatic) but I wanted to be honest. “But if you are interested, idk if you have Snapchat or Instagram. I’m going to delete the app, I really don’t have luck meeting someone lately So hopefully we can talk soon”

Just yesterday I finally got a message from her, she sent her number and added me on snap. I’m trying to play it cool, I apologize to her how dramatic I was about my message but understood because she’s been having trouble meeting someone too. We texted and I asked what she thought about my hangout list that I made and asked she was interested in doing one them, she’s “not tonight but we can plan it one weekend”. We kept texting and get the feel of things we have some things in common and it’s nice but I don’t want to mess it up. I did fall asleep after she texted me and I texted her when randomly woke up. Ugh I should’ve waited in morning so I could’ve talk to her.

How can I play it smooth? She’s told me she’s meet people but she never clicked with them or they never want to meetup. I don’t want to rush things or have hopes on something to happen. Like should I text her or wait? How can get her to stay interested?