I’m femme for femme and have yet to come across ANY other dominant femmes. I feel like a bit of an outsider when talking to my other queer friends and know I know I obviously can’t be the only one around.

I also feel like I don’t get taken seriously when it comes to dating and intimacy because I look like a basic LA girl with an affinity for plastic surgery.

OR more frequently that I’m being used as a low barrier to entry tester for a “gay experience.” This especially hurts because I’m looking for love, not your trial period.

I know looks can obviously be deceiving, but I’m struggling. Just reassure me I’m not alone and that there’s a fairytale light at the end of this dating tunnel.

UPDATE: Messages like this that I’m receiving from this post just prove my point. I’m taken as a joke based on how I look.