EDIT: thank you so much for everyone saying it's a bot. That makes a lot mote sense but dang bots have gotten smarter sounding since I was younger. I feel a bit like an idiot but we live and we learn. Thanks for helping clear that up.

So I'm a 33yo divorced single mom which already makes dating very difficult Well I had an experience yesterday that made me want to quit for good and I'm seeking genuine suggestions and advice when it comes to sending pictures and meeting people and maybe just any words of encouragement or kind critique.

The story: so I actually met a girl on here and she actually dmed me. We chatted for just a bit but I could tell she was wanting to flirt or possible trade pics. I don't care for this (you're about to see why) but I thought "well I'll be brave." She sent me hers first and she was stunning. Looked like a model. I told her she was gorgeous and immediately knew she was way out of my league. (Side note: I don't believe in them but I know society sure does and I know where I'm at. I'm not an ugly woman but I'm certainly very average.) I told her I was average looking but would send anyway. I sent. Bad choice. I closed the app for a second and when I went back to see her response, all of her comments were gone and her profile was invisible. Blocked. For... my picture of me. Like guys... I've been building my confidence but that was PAINFUL.

So...moving forward I'm very tempted to simply not send at all. Just... a blanket rule. I already have a no n*des policy but I am thinking of extending it. However... do you think this will hurt my chances of meeting real people if they think I'm not real because I won't show my picture? Would there be a way to verify for folks without putting myself in such a vulnerable position again??

Also... as women can we agree to just be very kindly honest and say "you're not my type" as opposed to a full block just because I'm not as pretty?? 🤣

But seriously, I'm trying not to let it get me down but others thoughts and suggestions may be helpful in how I move forward from here. Thanks guys and know that you're all beautiful no matter what anyone else may think. ❤️