Hello! I, 39F, have been with my girlfriend, 34F, for a little over a year. I’ve only ever been with women and she has dated men and women her whole life. Things are getting serious as we are discussing rings, combining some accounts, etc. I could definitely see this girl being the ONE. Here’s where I need advice. Anytime when I ask why she decided to stop dating men I can never get a clear or concise answer and it generally ends up heated with hurt feelings on both sides. So my question is, how do I let that last .1% of my guard down? It worries me that she can’t answer me clearly on it. Any advice would be wonderful! Thanks all!

And to add, she has NEVER done anything sketchy or odd or anything. This girl has been with me through some shit that she definitely should have run from. She has been nothing but amazing to me and supportive. I don’t want anyone to think she’s anything less than a truly amazing human.