i (20f) like this girl (21f). she’s beautiful, caring, funny, creative, and so sweet. i like her so much. we dated (only went on dates, nothing exclusive) for about a month or 2. we went on coffee dates, ramen dates, a walk in a garden, went to a chappell roan party and stayed in a hotel together for the night after.

she had to move hours away from me to take care of her grandparents. because of that we decided to just be friends because a long distance relationship would be difficult and i’m not sure if she really wanted a relationship at that time since she would be gone. 1000% understandable. we are still both really good friends and i enjoy talking to her a lot. i try to get over her and not talk to her so much. i try to talk to other girls and im just not really feeling anything there. i start to think “maybe im just aromantic and asexual” because im not feeling anything with other women i talk to.

last night i had a dream that i was with her at that party. we kissed and it was beautiful and romantic. i was thinking about tell her my feelings and got two of my friends opinions. both were on the opposite side of things from each other. i looked at her ig story and she posted this fortune cookie paper and it say “take the risk you’ve been considering”. how is that not a sign?

what do yall think i should do? i really really like her and i find it so difficult to get over her. idk what to do 😭