I grew up in a muslim household (my mom converted and i have a stepfather from palestine) and i was boy crazy my entire life. I secretly dated boys in my school in middle and highschool but i'd get bored around a year or we would fade off. Id get over them quickly.

When i was 19 i moved in with my gf at the time and she is transfem nonbinarym the intimate moments felt more like something i had to do and i could never figure out why i couldbt finish. I got another bf around the same time (we were polyam around then) but i never felt...connected and i waited 2 years to sleep with him. I had to drink and it didnt feel good at all. I was so confused because i knew i liked women but everyone with those parts didnt feel right. My coworker told me to try women. I went on HER and found my partner who is FTM nonbinary but still says we can call ourselves lesbians.

Its almost been a year since we got together but i havent gotten bored, i havent wanted to look else where and i LOVE the physical attention. Not just the sex but the cuddles, the soft face touches.

I am nonbinary and they go by he/they. Idk if i can still say lesbian? Im so confused