Hi.. I'm really sad right now and i feel like this is the end and it just sucks. I 18F have been dating this girl for almost 2.5 months. This is my first ever relationship. She's a year older than me and it's been going great. We've been having dates and been talking well. Till all of a sudden our family stuff been blowing up in our faces. My family been having issues and her parents have been struggling with their health. And I'm trying my hardest to be optimistic and positive and trying to be a good partner. I thought things were okay. We talked new years and she sounded happy.

All of a sudden today we were supposed to have a date and she wasn't responding to her messages. I texted her and she wasn't answering when I called. An hour ago I got this.. "I think I'm not in the right mental state right now to be in a relationship, and I hate saying this cause I don't want to hurt you, and this could feel out of the blue, I'm sorry"

I feel like my heart is hurting and I wanted to talk too her and somehow I don't know.. be there for her at the very least be she said she didn't want to. So I sent back this. "I understand. I'm going to give you some space. But whenever you're ready to talk, let me know. I don't want to break things off with you. I really do care about you, and I want to be there for you even if things are bad. But I can't do that if you don't let me. If being in a relationship is not what you need right now, I respect that. Thank you for being upfront with me and communicating." She read it but I think this is it. This is my first and I don't know where I went wrong or if this is just bad luck. I know she was having problems and I was talking to her and she seemed happy. Im just confused and hurt. I'm not mad at her I just have no idea what to do...