In all of my previous encounters I’ve acted basically as a pillow princess. Recently, I had an intimate experience where I was able to explore my more dominant side and I think I might enjoy giving than I do receiving.

With my long-term partner, I’ve only ever been on the receiving end but I was wanting to explore more of this new side with them. Unfortunately for me, my partner only wants to top ever.

I’m perfectly fine with being a bottom and think I might be a service top, so rly my partners pleasure matters more than my own to me. But when I was able to top I found that it was fulfilling in a way that I didn’t think sex could be before this.

Does any one have any advice on how to navigate this situation? I want to be able to top my partner but I’m also not comfortable overstepping any boundaries.

Do I just have to accept that we aren’t the most sexually compatible in this way? Sex was rly good before so it wouldn’t be the worst thing to bottom again.

Has anyone gone through anything similar with the renegotiating relationship dynamics? Any advice is helpful.