Okay y’all so I totally understand how odd this may sound but idc lol. Why don’t women show interest/approach me??? I truly with my soul don’t understand it. I have a gorgeous face, an insane body but most importantly (cause I can talk about how sexy I am all day lol) I am A FUCKING BLAST, I am funny, I am sweet and have such a warm personality and energy. (not saying I am perfect cause I have my short comings and flaws and I am aware of how annoying I am haha)

I (unfortunately) get a lot of attention from men and I know if I was dumb enough to date men I wouldn’t have any shortage of suitors. I always chalked it up to the fact that lesbians never approach people first and tend to be shy and never make the first move. I also wonder if it’s because I really am confident and secure in myself and that energy MAY intimidate others. I then wonder if its cause being a black woman means that I am never anyone’s “first choice” 🤷🏾‍♀️ Anyways any advice would be amazing 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾♥️♥️♥️

And since everyone is wrongly speculating, YES I do approach women all the time, just never had any luck. I could literally talk to a squirrel for 10 hours straight 😭😭