Yaknow, I tried soooo hard to understand where people were coming from when it comes to posting selfies. "They just want to put themselves out there obviously!" Thats only about 2% of all the selfie posts in this sub and the rest consist of;

• "Why don't women approach me uwu🥺"

• "Do I look gay enough? 🥺"

• "I am on a dating site where mostly men reside, why aren't women flirting with me!?🥺"

• "Am I ugly for a gay girl? Is a model"

• "I went to a lesbian bar and nobody approached me! Insert selfie

• "Why am I not pretty enough for women? 🥺"

•Posts the same photos twice after deleting to receive MORE compliments.

• "Ugh! Why does nobody like me!? Specifically women!1!!1!🥺"

Like holy shit. Are you guys okay? I know the fish are biting but its giving tiktok girls that just want quick validation. Some people want genuine advice but 9 times out of 10, they are just baiting for compliments or want to be hyped up?

Imo, thats way cringer than actually going outside and being rejected by a woman. Why do you care what a bunch of lesbians and probably a few dudes think about you online? How are we supposed to know what is wrong with you?

To the people that post actual selfies and engage with actual conversations through your posts, thank you. Its much more entertaining than seeing the 100th mary-sue asking why she isn't pretty enough to find a dyke prince charming. 😒

Begging the mods to add a pinned selfie thread or something because this shit is getting so so so annoying. Seeing the same whiney women doing nothing to improve themselves.