I can’t deal with sapphic coquette poetry, I don’t hate men, I don’t wanna live in a cottage with my girlfriend with 3 cats and I hate girl in red. I’ve almost never been able to relate to most of the lesbians I come across. Maybe it’s just because I was a trans guy but I relate to straight guy culture way more than lesbian culture. Despite being very feminine now, I still feel disconnected from most lesbians (hell, most women). Even the way lesbians talk about sex half the time is so deep and poetic, talking about power dynamics and the softness of 2 women being intimate and what not when I j want a girl to shake it in my face 🥴 but yeah, does anyone feel this way too, or is this just because I was a trans man for so long..

I also get really annoyed when I get grouped with “internet” lesbians I guess. I love being grouped with butches and studs despite being fem, I dunno.