I’ve always been a very feminine person, for context I live in Mexico and my upbringing was very traditional, I even went to catholic school so it was very expected that I had a more feminine style. Right now at my 27 years old I’ve come out of the closet and feel free to dress however I like because I am no longer worried that people will think I am a lesbian because I am actually a lesbian. I didn’t have any friends from the lesbian community and I met many lesbian friends this year, they kinda keep saying I am a “soft masc”, i feel so weird about it because I don’t think I am a very masculine person and for some reason I feel like I have to act a certain way to fit into what people think I will do, I feel lots of pressure lol, I don’t even know if maybe its like Im being homophobic with myself? Or is it actually some shared experience to feel a bit pressured by the “masc” label in the lesbian community? Thank you and sorry for my messy english.