I (Bi nb mid 30s) feel like in my 20s I always had a few extroverted friends who made sure I was always meeting someone, but now I'm mid 30s I meet way less people. I know I'm gonna have to leave my comfort zone but I don't know which direction. I hate bars (overstimulating), hate apps (have no context for who someone is outside of trying to decide if they wanna fuck me), work full time and have friendships that are important to me, so not a ton of time and energy to try a bunch of new things. I have a lot of active hobbies that would make fun dates (dancing, biking, hiking, crafts...) but when I'm doing them I'm not really in the mindset to be approaching people romantically. I'm demi and it takes an annoyingly long time to know if I'm attracted to someone even though I often can tell if we'd make good friends very quickly, and I have found it hard to describe that to people (but mostly to people who turn out to be more interested in hookups than relationships). I'm working on spending more time out of the house and in community but I default to quality time with my friends. I'm out of the habit since covid started. How do people meet these days??