About a week ago my fiance and I broke up. We've been together for 2 years. This was my first- coming out lesbian relationship.. I truly don't know how I feel. Moments I'm in my closet crying based off of the passive aggressive comments she makes but on the other hand I have to be strong for my kids.

My longest relationship was with my kids father for 9 years with alot of DV. I love her dearly but I'm tired of mothering her as she can't do anything for herself. I cook, I clean, I pay the bills and I have my own children 90% of the year. I just feel like we're on different levels of life.

Is this resentment?

Is this normal for a lesbian break up? We've broken up atleast 2-3 other times but this time I followed through with it since she didn't speak counseling like she stated she would.

my kids loved her but she also would state that my 9 year old and 6 year old ( autistic child) made her depressed..

I think she loved the idea of a family but didn't like being a parent.

Ideas- tips - tricks. First lesbian break up 💔