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How to deal with constantly comparing yourself to your GF?
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Apparently my girlfriend and I look very similar. I donā€™t see it. Weā€™re both just brown, average-height chicks that dress like theyā€™re from 2005. But weā€™re together all the time (our teachers, families etc. know us as ā€œinseparable best friendsā€), in all the same classes and have similar hobbies. Because of this we get compared constantly. I was a straight trans guy for many years and recently detransitioned because of societal pressure and always heard ā€oh you should be more like ___ ā€œ, which, like, fine. Okay. Whatever. But now that Iā€™m a woman Iā€™ve started comparing myself to her on my own constantly? Now I feel like sheā€™s just the hotter, skinnier version of me thatā€™s better than me in every way. I didnā€™t mind at first, but the jealousyā€™s only getting worse and Iā€™m afraid itā€™ll cause some resentment down the line. Weā€™ve been together over a year though. Any tips? šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļøšŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø

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