So I’m a 16 year old girl. I’m wouldn’t say I’m masculine or feminine. I dress both ways. I recently cut my hair to a pixie cut. It’s not a ‘masculine’ pixie cut. It looks like something that a straight or gay woman would have. Frankly, I don’t really think that hair is gay or straight. The other day I went to my grandmas house and he said “look at your butch granddaughter”. I got pissed off. Then tonight we went to dinner. On the way there he said that I should marry a man and that I should settle down and have children. I told him that I don’t even know if I want to get married and have children. I want a child but I don’t know about partnerships in general. I’m not opposed to it but it’d take someone really special. He then said that I better not become a spinster or old maid. I said that I don’t understand why women are discriminated against for that. I think it’s ridiculous. And he said that men are discriminated against more than women are. I told him that I never said men weren’t discriminated against. Both sexes are. Although I do think that women are discriminated against more in our society. He used men being called simps as an example. I said that’s ridiculous because it’s not really even a bad thing. Women are called simps also. I told him that women are called sluts and whores for doing anything or they’re called prudes for not doing anything. We have to worry about how people perceive us. We have to watch our backs all the time since men can’t seem to not rape us. I told my dad that I wouldn’t even consider dating a man because my trust in them is gone. I was molested by my grandfather two months ago. He said that someone will come along soon. I said that I’m not looking for a relationship. I used to identify as bisexual but after I was molested I can’t even fathom being in a relationship with a man. He can’t wrap his head around that I guess. I told him that men and women don’t need each other to be happy. We can be fulfilled on their own. I think that marriage is beautiful and having kids is beautiful but it’s not for everyone. I do want kids though. I might just have them on my own. He doesn’t understand this though. I told him that his input doesn’t matter to me. Ge pisses me the fuck off. He said that it does matter and that he knows what I need in life. My dad is an asshole. He sees women as objects and thinks that women can’t vote because they’re to “emotional”. Even though he gets pissed over everything. I’m just done. He doesn’t understand shit.