Hey there friends! I’ve noticed that quite a few queer women are confused as to what a Stone Top & Stone Bottom are. So I’ve decided to answer some commonly asked questions down below ⬇️

So what is a Stone Top? Stone Top is a term almost exclusively used in the lesbian community to describe a person who does not want to receive during sex. (For example, they might not want to be penetrated whatsoever.) Oftentimes, these folks do not undress entirely during sex, and have unique boundaries about being touched. Stone Top lesbians get satisfaction from pleasuring their partner. People who identity as a Stone Top lesbian often seek out those who are Stone Bottoms/Pillow princesses.

So, what’s a Stone Bottom/Pillow Princess? A Stone Bottom/Pillow Princess refers to someone who only enjoys being on the receiving end of sex. These people are typically not willing to take on a dominant role, and are typically against being the top.

Stone Tops & Stone Bottoms Stone Tops & Stone Bottoms are often compatible, and complement each other well. They use these identities as a way to find a compatible partner, who understands their boundaries & preferences regarding intimacy.

Are Stone Tops masculine lesbians? Sometimes yes, but sometimes no. Any type of lesbian can be a Stone Top, and there is no rule on how you must present yourself. Feminine lesbians can be a Stone Top, masculine lesbians can be a Stone Top, and androgynous lesbians can as well. This also applies for Stone Bottoms.

Are all lesbians either a Stone Top, or a Stone Bottom? Nope! There are soooo many different ways that lesbians identify themselves. Some people are Stone Tops, some people are Stone Bottoms, and some people even switch between being a bottom/top. There are also some people who don’t like using labels like these at all.

Do Stone Tops still enjoy being pleasured? Every Stone Top has a unique experience, so no one really has the exact same answer. Some Stone Tops strictly pleasure other’s, but some Stone Tops enjoy certain forms of pleasure. Personally as a Stone Top, I just don’t like reciving penetration or being a bottom. Although I love being kissed, caressed, groped, and felt up. I also love for my clitoris to be stimulated by either grinding, tribbing, or using a vibrator. I even a strap on that actually has a built in vibrator, so the person wearing it can feel pleasure as well. :)