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My partner (24F) and I (22F) have been dating for 6 months. We spent the first 2.5 months in the same city and then shifted to LDR. It was amazing when we were in the same city, and we spent a lot of quality time.Β
We started dating when I was in the final semester of undergrad, and she was working. I did not have a lot of studies then, so I could dedicate quality time to the relationship. After I completed my undergrad, I had to move back home. The first month of LDR was okay; we texted and called every day.
In the second month,Β she joined grad school (after a few years of finishing her undergrad). It has been almost 3 months since she joined grad school. Grad school has been tough for her; she's barely been able to get time to herself, let alone the relationship. This is starting to affect the relationship.
She's going through emotional dissociation and hasn't had feelings about anything that has happened in the last 3 months. She wants to do well in grad school to justify the financial investment.
Two months ago, I got the opportunity to move to her city for an internship and a potential job. I took it up and have been here for more than a month. We've met only once in that period despite being 25 minutes away. I asked her if I could visit, but it hasn't been possible because of her workload and roommates. Silent video calls where we do our work aren't possible because it distracts her. We barely call in a week. We still text every day though. Weekly dates just have not been happening.
I love her and want to support her, but I'm not feeling connected enough to her. I don't know what to do.
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