I went to a queer girl event in San Diego last night, and I felt old as fuck being there. So many girls look barely 18. Which no, nothing wrong with their age, but I’m in my 30’s. I want someone closer to my age. I felt so out of place. And it’s like it was packed, but half of them I felt were just standing around not even dancing. I left early, cause I felt like I saw no one of my type around.

Yes, I have dated outside of my type before and it ended up just being a fucking shit show. She was more cottage core vibes, in my spooky/alt life. And there was once I mention how cute our house could be mashing the two together. Like lots of green and black With plants and skulls. And she hated it and didn’t even wanna entertain the idea and only wanted her ideas only.

Anyway, I have more an alt aesthetic and I am Masc presenting. I love concerts. Typically the bands I listen to are more of who performed at Warped Tour, and such. I just want a girl who knows how to mosh with me at concerts. Anyone know how I can find this girl? I’ve been looking for my wife. 👀