Hello! I am new here. I consider myself a late bloomer (Going to be 32). I moved to China for school in 2015 at 22 and have remained here this entire time working after graduation, through the pandemic and everything. Next year I will be moving to the UK. I am from the Caribbean btw. I was generally cut off from Western social spaces and dating apps, and I'd like to try dating after I am settled. I don't know what the dating scene is like.

No, I didn't try dating local lesbians here in China as I am a melanated woman and after living here for almost a decade, early on I realized that path was one destined for a dead end - so I never tried.

I am embarrassed to ask for advice. I don't know how to attract a lady on apps or in person. It is like a whole new world to me and I'd like advice on how to navigate.