Honestly, this is the rambling of a hopeless romantic, but I can already tell I’m gonna be super whipped for my future wife.

I like to reflect on how I treat my friends an it’s always with intense platonic devotion. I love them, they mean the world to me! I love taking care of them and making sure they’re well fed, listening to their problems and just being the best support for them as I can.

Now, when I start dating (I’ve never dated before but I know for sure that I’d only date for marriage)? It’s gonna be a lot of that, but on a romantic level.

Wife complains that outside is too bright? Now me and the sun got beef! Wife says that she’s tired? Already getting started with the bedtime rituals. Wife says she’s hungry? Gonna learn her favorite foods so she’ll never have to eat out again. It’s about the love, tenderness and communication! That’s how we build our own personal support system!

Also, don’t even get me started on mentioning her in damn near every conversation. “Yeah that reminds me of the time when MY WIFE…” My coworkers would have to endure my lovesick chatter or simply Perish.

Anyway, all of this is to say that I feel like I thrive when I can care for another person who’s able to care for me. It’s that positive feedback loop that makes you want to better yourself so you can be better for your loved ones. 🥰