Hey! So I'm recently divorced from a straight marriage. After some time for grief and self assessment I'm starting to open myself up a bit more to intimacy. I've posted on other subs looking to meet people and maybe see if I can't build a connection. I've also been using all the usual apps. I've noticed that I am feeling a much stronger connection and pull towards the women I'm meeting in both places.

I'm interested in exploring this more but I feel like there is a lot of judgment for "bicurious" women who are being performative. I want to be honest but I've also noticed that some of the women I've opened up to have told me that they're not interested in me doing my self discovery on them.

So does anyone who may have been a late in life discoverer have any advice on how to experiment and try to learn about myself in a way that's ethical? I feel like this all would have been easier if I had done this when I was younger....