ever since i came out as a lesbian, life has felt more free. i guess it’s cuz, i no longer seek validation from men?? like ive dressed for me, with my interest in mind, and i just been able to kinda… get rid of the idea that i have to play into the male gaze, like i no longer have something on my shoulder telling me what would a man feel about this.

it’s hard to explain, but such a beautiful feeling. i just enjoy this so much, and u can’t wait to explore my sexuality even more, especially when it comes to romance and such. i’m just extremely happy to have come to this realization at my age, and to know how i truly want to live my life.