So as I’ve said, I’m frustrated and to be honest feeling kind of down. I have heard advice about using Hinge, Her. okCupid and the like. I know I can be awkward and my usual first message of “Hey. Hi how are you?” I feel like it’s Pretty straightforward, yet also kind of beige at the same time. I’m just trying get my foot in the door and then paint the town red.

I’m not opposed to watching movies on Netflix, Hulu, Prime., Apple TV, YT, whatever. I’m looking to get fit and drop some #s so even a nice walk at different parks with our pups would be fun. Let’s play some board games at a boba spot. Perhaps we can go to a spa for mani/pedis. I’m really open. But I digress…perhaps what I’m asking is too much or not enough.

I don’t want to blame my issues on others but why are there SO MANY flakes, creepers and men (who call you “dear” with negative intentions)?

Anyways, I have many different photos and I think my page is adequate. In terms of what i look like. I make no attempts to hide that I’m a robust woman. I also make it pretty clear what I’m looking for. Nothing serious, unless it gets serious.

I’d like to think I’m one of the good ones and I say that both seriously and facetiously. Help me help myself y’all.

If you’d like to chat, feel free to holler. I love getting to know new folks.