I like someone a lot and they seem to like me back. But the problem lies in the fact that we both want to go slow and they’re really flirty. For info im autistic so for me any and all affection past basic niceties can be considered flirting and actual flirting can mean I fall really fast. They said they like making people fall in love with them and acknowledged it was bad and that got me thinking that maybe the date they took me on was just a fun night on the town with easy sex and they might not really like me as much as I thought they did. I am interested in a relationship with them eventually but I’m not ready for a relationship and my flirting doesn’t feel like its really been reciprocated as much lately. I am not sure I should pursue them as much as I want to, they were really nice to me and we had an amazing date and it was so easy to talk to them so I’m in a bit of an emotionally confused state.

Thoughts?