So, I’m 20, my girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. We met in middle school and have been best friends ever since. I really love her and know we’re meant to be together.

A few months ago, she was rubbing me and stuck her finger inside. I immediately squealed and pulled her arm out of my pants. I yelled at her for a while as she knew I didn’t want anything inside of me and left pretty angry. Weeks later, we discussed it and agreed it would be best to move forward with our relationship intimately. However I need to do it on my own terms.

It’s been around two months since then and I’ve made next to no progress… It hurts whenever I try to put anything inside, I’ve only ever used pads, no tampons, cups, anything. Ive tried different positions, hot towels, Vaseline, mastrobation, etc… nothings worked. she’s impatient and I’m ready to get it over with.

A made this redit account yesterday after getting fed up with the whole situation. This is one last try for answers before I tell her to just get it over with.

First time making a post so I hope this isn’t too inappropriate for the chat, so sorry if it is! Please delete it if it’s going too far.

She’s always been loose and welcoming to penetration, making it look like a great time. I really want this for us.

And yeah… this is a late night post so I’m super emotional at the moment and kinda ranting. She recently asked about my progress and I had to tell hey yet again, I’ve gotten nowhere.

Thanks for listening I guess…