Thank you, yeah sometimes you have to just admit you’re wrong and adapt. Good luck in your drama, it definitely isn’t the easy but it is getting easier not to react.

I can’t argue with any of that. It is annoying but everyone here is saying the same thing so I will listen and not post anything.

I knew people here would tell me what I didn’t want to hear but ultimately knew anyway. It is difficult for reasons I explained under another comment but you’re right and I am better off just leaving it.

Thank you :)

Yeah definitely hasn’t been fun, and yeah exactly. I won’t post anything. I have actually used what I went through as inspiration to build a motivational brand that’s done millions of views & I’ll be launching an online store around that soon. Took the L, worked on myself and turned it into a positive. I have a feeling that may be why she wants to get one over on me. Thanks for the comments.

Yeah I won’t do it but it’s really annoying that people can just make a claim, smear your name and then you can’t even clear your name after the case is closed.

Thank you. I am considering the things you mentioned. I was only planning to post in my story with a caption along the lines of “turns out telling the truth is.. NOT ILLEGAL!”. This would be gone in 24 hours and the accuser is blocked on all platforms, she has been blocked for about a year now.

It’s difficult because all of this was an attempt to silence me / stop me from having a say in my son’s life. She has also smeared my name amongst people I know to the point my son even got picked on by kids in our area because of things his mum said to my neighbours about me, to justify the way she treated me.

She kept making important decisions in my sons life without including me and outright going against mine and my sons wishes when we have 50/50 custody. She would also rub the guy she cheated on me with in my face and whenever I would bring any of this up with her mother (as agreed all contact goes through her mum) she would make out that I was harassing her. That’s what she reported me for, even though throughout the breakup, I have followed all of her rules of contact which she herself broke.

I do understand that the best thing is to just shut up and get on with it but I don’t like it. A big part of me just wants to show that I am not in trouble and I haven’t done anything wrong.