INTRODUCTION:

Hi, to all those reading and interested, you can refer to me as ‘Z.’ It’s a pleasure to meet you. So, as to not waste your time, I’ll go straight into describing my appearance: I’m slender and dark-skinned, with a few facial piercings including an eyebrow, septum and two lip piercings. I’m visibly alternative, so if that’s not your cup of tea, feel free to exit now. My style can be described as feminine, princess-ey, gothic/dark femme—although sometimes I fancy wearing lighter colors, such as pink and white.

WHAT I’M LOOKING FOR:

Now that we’ve gotten that out the way, allow me to expand on what I’m seeking. I’m looking for a man, 18-24, who I can build a friendly relationship with, and eventually, once a mutual sense of trust has been built explore sexually. I’m looking for someone who is confident in his sexuality and does not stray from showing it; someone who I can build a connection and close bond with. Basically, I’m looking for a glorified friend w/ benefits who, if we both feel it, I can build a real relationship with.

Ideally, I’d like someone who’s fit and/or slender. Twink builds and lean muscles are my weakness. Race doesn’t matter. Height doesn’t matter; I’m 5’7 and I don’t have a preference for taller or shorter. I love feminine boys, sporty boys, businessmen, boys with a lil chub, boys with nice thighs, alternative boys, nerdy boys, skinny boys—I love all type of pretty boys, really. Although, I’m not a fan of hyper-masculine appearances.

Most important things about me:

• To be clear, a connection needs to be made before we move onto ANYTHING sex-related. I need someone whose personality meshes with mine. We need to be able to take each other on dates, have deep conversations when night falls, have a good sense of intimacy without making it sexual. We can gnaw on snacks while you teach me how to game. We can read to each other, we can teach each other about our favorite things. You can lay your head on my lap and let me play with your hair while we watch a film—maybe eventually cuddle close because you’re easily freighted at horror movies. I love all sorts of non-sexual intimacy.

• If we connect, expect prince treatment. Let me dress you up all pretty, show you off on my arms, make you dinner and pluck flowers for you. Let me treat you like I want to be treated. I’ll open the doors for you; order for you at restaurants; send back the meal if you wanted no mayo but the server made a mistake.

DISLIKES:

Pushy men. If you’re going to push for instant sex, forget about it. I need someone who’s willing to commit.

Top men. If I’m a top and you’re a top, what will we do? Sword fight? My dick is plastic; I’ll easily win that battle. Don’t try to message me to ‘convert’ me, I know what I want. (Switches/Verses, this message is not intended for you!)

Materialistic people. If I like you, I’ll treat you right and I’ll spoil you—but not with material things. I’m the type to give massages and cook and bring you treats and gift baskets when you’re feeling down. I expect the same treatment. I need someone who’s willing to put in the effort that I will.

Racists/Right-Wing/Apolitical. I need someone who’s at least semi-aware of our political climate. If you say the n-word or use slurs that you cannot reclaim, you’re not for me.

Uncleanliness. Please, please take care of yourself. Shower, put on anti-perspirant, wash your hands. I can’t stand unhygienic people—having a sense of cleanliness is the bare minimum for an adult.

HOW TO MESSAGE ME When, and only when, you’ve read all of this and it’s piqued your interest enough to send a message please craft up a semi-lengthy message introducing yourself by your name, age, and a SFW picture of your body. You get bonus points if you share a picture of your face; I’ll send one too. I expect the message to be at least 100 words, discussing your interests and hobbies, why you decided to message, and any questions that you may have. Bonus points if you give me your ideal SFW date; I might just make it happen (; Make the message as long as you’d like, but I need it to be decipherable, so exercise your grammar and punctuation skills. Any short DMs will be promptly ignored and deleted, so follow my instructions to the T.

We can discuss any kinks we may have in private; as I’m sure you’ll learn, I’m generally very un-judgmental. I’d prefer for that conversation to happen after a few days to a week of conversing and/or dating at the very least.

If you’ve made it all the way to the end, I commend you! It was a joy sharing this with you, and I hope that we can speak soon :)