My husband and I have been poly for a couple of years and I've started craving something a bit more stable than I've been able to find. On the dating apps, most guys just want to hookup and the few that don't can't see a polyamorous relationship with a couple. We want to date and possibly find a long term boyfriend who is primarily into me but also potentially/situationally into men. This may not be any better than the dating apps but here goes nothing. Does this sound interesting to anyone? Questions are welcomed, let's get to know each other. We are both mostly sapiosexual so you must be intelligent and have a good/charming personality. Looking for something meaningful based on intimacy and friendship. I would love for you to be friends with my husband and maybe play pool, go out for drinks, go to a concert, go offroading, go to a pool, go to the gym, watch a movie or other things as a group date. The way I imagine this, the sexual aspect would be all three of us with the focus on me because I admittedly love attention. We are both good looking and take care of ourselves so you should be too.

We've been together for 15 years, married for 10, and poly for nearly 2. We have a kid who recently moved out. If you've made it this far, the post was never meant to sound "picky" or "high brow". We are both just honest people who have worked our way through numerous relationships that are ultimately unfulfilling. We've had a few conversations now that we know what we are looking for and confidently post knowing full well that we might not find what we are looking for on here. However, that doesn't mean we can't give it a shot, right? Want to be our third?