This might be a bit of a read, but bear with me.

I'm located in Lancaster City, and I'm looking for a serious couple who are interested in something ongoing. I know this is Reddit, and finding people can be a challenge, but I know there are people out there looking for something similar, and I want to take a shot in the dark.

Here's a description of myself:
I'm African American, 5'10, 175lbs, and I take care of myself as I always try to work out daily. I like reading, drawing, playing video games, hiking, exercising, and always open-minded to trying new things. If I had to describe myself based on things people have told me, it would be that I'm respectful, honest, and someone who understands boundaries and knows how to have fun. I don't drink or smoke, but I don't mind people who do.

What I'm looking for and things I like:
The best thing I can say that I'm looking for is a friends-with-benefit couple situation. I want to be able to converse but not have an endless emailing situation. I would love to find a couple that I could meet with once or twice a month (at minimum) for bedroom fun. We can also meet for vanilla get-togethers like catching a movie, getting some food, going to the arcade, etc., if you're interested in that as well.

I love all races and am open to everyone of any nationality.

You don't need to be a supermodel in terms of physical fitness, but I prefer people who are not substantially overweight. A few extra pounds is fine with me as well. This is just my personal preference.

I know that in some couples, the male half allows their woman to play alone, but I would prefer both parties be there. I prefer a couple dynamic over a single woman dynamic.

I'm open to everything in the bedroom except male-on-male play and scat play.

I would prefer a couple that is local to Lancaster, but I can be flexible with distance when it comes to the right couple. I would prefer if the couple can host, but I can always get a hotel room for the right people should I find them. If I have to travel out of the city, I would ask that you be able to host.

I understand life can get busy, and plans can change, but I would prefer people who can be vocal and let me know when we need to reschedule. I don't like being flaked on, and I don't flake on others. When I set a time and date, I will be there even if you are an hour away.

I prefer a Stag/vixen couple far more than a cuckold. I'm not into belittling or demeaning a man who's allowing me to play with his wife. It's an honor to be a part of a couple's bedroom and I treat it as such.

I only play with condoms. (Should I find the right ongoing couple and we're exclusive to each other along with being comfortable enough, I wouldn't mind playing without one.)

I have no issues with couples who want to record as long as its for our eyes only. If you wish to post it online, I would just ask that my face be blurred out.

My schedule:
Like many of us, I have a job, so I have specific times that I'm free.

Monday-Friday (I'm free any time after 4:30pm.)
Saturday-Sunday (I'm free all day)

Mandatory requirements when messaging:
When sending me a message I would ask if you could do the following things below. If you don't I will more than likely not respond to your message.

• Tell me both of your stats: (Age, height, weight, etc.)

• Give me your Location: (I mean exact location as well. Too many people tell me they're in Lancaster and then come to find out they're in Manheim, Gap, Etc. If you're in somewhere like Lititz, just say Lititz.

• Send me a G-rated photo: What I would like from you both when sending a photo is a picture or even a video of you both together holding up a piece of paper with your reddit username. (I would prefer your faces be visible, but you can blur or crop your faces out if you want to keep your anonymity.)

I know online spaces have a problem with pic collectors and I know how annoying they can be. I also know people want to keep their anonymity and I'm very much the same. I am not a pic collector nor do I want to destroy anyone's anonymity.

I know some people are concerned with running into someone they might know in their day to day lives, but I can assure you that if I know you, I'll pretend like I don't and delete your message. (I've been in the lifestyle for almost 8 years and I have never seen anyone from my day to day life on here.) I will send the same photos once I see yours.

• Tell me a bit about yourselves: What are your hobbies? Favorite flavor of ice cream? Favorite TV shows? Etc.

Optional requirements when messaging:
When sending a message, you do not need to add these things. Only do so if you would like.

• Alternative communication method: I know messaging through reddit isn't always the best, so if you have alternative ways for me to message you, just give me whatever may work best for you. This could be a phone number, or apps like Kik, Etc. If you prefer to talk through reddit, then we can chat here without going to another app.

Closing statement:
If you've made it this far, I appreciate the fact that you read everything. I know it was a lot to read, but I believe this is the way that I will be able to find a serious couple. If I seem like the kind of person that fits your criteria, feel free to send a message with the mandatory requirements I listed above. Have a great rest of your day and I hope to hear from you soon.