I used to be attracted to older women. I still am, but I used to, too.

What I'm about to say goes with the understanding what we'll chat for a bit and see if there's any chemistry. If there is...

Hi. I'm Chris. I'm single by choice and really don't want to change that any time soon. However, I'm a human and you're a human and it just gets a little lonely sometimes. I'm not here for random hookups or one night stands, but I don't want full-blown relationship, either. Ideally we'd just kind of be each other's escape from everyday life. I'm open to keeping in touch and taking about our days and making an emotional connection, but I don't want US to be my entire life. Just a little something to look forward to when it's convenience for both of us.

I'm a demisexual so physical appearance isn't a huge deal with me (but there does have to be some mutual physical attraction as well). But like I've already said, I want someone that can stimulate my mind before anything else. If you think you might not be my type, or if you're thinking you might be too old for me, go ahead and send a message anyway because I'm down.

Why someone older? Several reasons.

Emotional maturity, for starters. It's ok if you have an immature sense of humor. You'll be in good company with me.

I just have an easier time talking with and getting along with older women. Maybe I have an old soul, or maybe I'm just a big flirt and older women appreciate that more. I dunno lol.

They're just more physically attractive, what can I say? Who knows, maybe there's some deep seated mommy issues going on, but we can dive in to all that later.

If you're still reading then you should stop now and DM be. I do have a pic on my reddit profile, or I'd be happy to send you one. Start the chat with your ASL, or your best joke and we'll figure out the rest after.

Thanks for reading,

Chris.