My wife and I are in our 70’s. She’s had a handicap for the past 10 yrs. With old age comes a slew of issues for both of us. I have to have help to get it up, and don’t always ejaculate when I have an orgasm. She on the other hand is rarely able to engage, mostly because of bodily pain and incontinence. No, a shower together or separate does improve things much.

Any suggestions?

My confession is that with her military background, she qualifies for a home aide to assist her. The problem is that Mayra is gorgeous and fit, and when I’m with her all I can think of is going down on her and making love to her.

Don’t get me wrong I love my wife deeply and our lives are wonderful except for the one problem, HELP!