So me and my GF (18 and 19) both live a few states away, I was going to visit but I can’t really stay at a hotel by myself because I have epilepsy and don’t feel like dying, and her parents won’t let me stay there (we both live with our parents) Since we’ve been together longer compared to then, I’m probably going to be able to go for Christmas and have the both of us stay somewhere together. This is the longest and most committed relationship I’ve ever had and it’s all a scary situation since I haven’t traveled long distances like that by myself, and my seizures are caused by stress and you bet your sweet bippy that it’s stressful. I’m overall very scared and I’m mostly here to share, but if anyone has advice or something important to say then by all means please tell.